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Forget what hurt you, but never forget what it thought you.

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You may have been hurt many times by anyone, sometimes it would be a silly reason and you tend to playfully ignore it because it would not be too serious. But there are times when you get hurt so much that you do not know to get over it. It is natural to be angry, annoyed or even frustrated in such cases; you would never want to speak to that person or even face him/her.  Question is in such cases what do we do? Do we forgive the one who hurt or just forget it and move ahead in life? None of it possible in reality, it is natural to be angry and think I will never forget what happened and will never forgive that person for anything. Whatever has happened has hurt your soul and mind, when both are hurt there is no way you would want to either forget or forgive.  In such cases you would want to take revenge, but is it fruitful to do so, building up vengeance will hurt just oneself eventually. You become monster that you did not anticipate to be. Life happens in most uncertai

Never let your frustration carry forward.

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Being upset is common when things do not go as planned but what happens when you are upset is more important to consider. In the last few days, things have been messed up and am not doing quite well myself. I broke health-based rules, binge eating is on roll, broke a glass jar, threw away few sheets which were very important and then again looked for them in the dustbin. now you might wonder how bad can it be, such things do happen regularly and it is fine. Think about it again and you will notice that it turns out to be a pattern to ruin things based on anger about something else. Trying to be healthy is not difficult, however, when anger/frustration takes over you tend to ignore everything and eat stupid stuff which in turn cause skin related issue, weight gain, lethargic behaviour and much more. An active person cant live like this. Breaking a glass jar, now don't think am religious over glass breaking stuff and all. Nope, my sentiment lies over the jar that did no